How to behave to the youth job seekers ?
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Thank you to Mohamoud El-Nahal for this article about his advice! Which is great!
Listen my friend. A
job seeker young guy!
Don't worry, you are
not alone. I felt the same until 4th of February, i actually was addicted to
some kind of drug which i had to stop as well during the last two months
journey, i hope it remains for the rest of my life the same as i am doing it
now.
I studied engineering
for 8- 9 years, to be specific two bachelor's, i graduated last year from my
second bachelor's of electrical engineering and information technology. I felt
lost, i have no skill, my grades are great, but still i felt lost, i am
useless, and worthless. I have no value to offer, that was the reason i started
to abuse the drug.
4th of February, a
year after abusing the drug, i decided to go for more, for seven continious
days, until i had a very bad trip, alone, all by myself, and since i decided to
change cities last January, the closest friend for me was 8 hours away “In a
foreign country”. In the trip i forgot my name and everything about me. I was
freaking out, and i decided to start to remember anything and to analyze the
feeling i have by writing on a note, why am i scared of this drug ? What can i
be without it ? Who am i ? Can i change the situation?
With the help of my
mother, and my sister with their endless love and care (they don't know i was
addicted to any drug or if i am passing by any bad situation, last time i met
them was two years ago) , and a friend who works in psychotherapy, all by
talking in the phone, no one around for two months, no one familiar. I could
survive this very hard situation, and i could develop the habit of reading, and
writing, i write summarize of what i read. So it's important to let you know,
it's not about how much do you read, it's about how do you read. In other
words, if someone wrote a book in 2 — 6 years, and you say i read the book in
couple of hours .. congratulations, you did nothing. I will suggest self-help
books which i read during the last two months, i picked these books very
carefully, i will suggest all what i have read, and 2 books are in the list of
many many upcoming.
The meaning of Life:
it introduce to what effects our meaning of life.
The obstacle is the
way: why is every obstacle we face can be our way to success.
Unscripted — very very
important : changing your mind of living scripted life, with scripted thinking,
or being mediocre. Start living Unscripted, different that anyone you know,
different than you have ever imagined before.
Man's search for
meaning — very important: How can you find meaning in life IN SUFFERING, even
if your suffering is huge, you still can find meaning. The book could be a bit
boring in some areas, but i took 3 full days studying this book and ended up
with 10 A4 summary pages out of this small book, which are relevant to me and
explained using logotherapy.
Next in the list:
How to win friends and
influence people.
The laws of human
nature.
Calm.
Learning how to learn.
In the end, you have
to take the decision my friend, it seems you really got bored of what you are
doing atm. Take the steps slowly, but intensively. Both of us are 26 years old,
and we think we are late in the game, but believe me, non of those who answered
know what you feel, and i can even think that non of them ever thought i am a
loser .. we are all losers my friend, and the first step to take is to wonder,
why am i a loser, and how can i change that fact !
We are never late, go
learn and you are ignorant. As you don't know anything in life, and you are a
new born baby trying to understand the surrounding.
If you need more info,
send me a private message please.
Good luck, and best
wishes.
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Engineer at Alten2021–present
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and Electronics Engineering, Hochschule Ravensburg-WeingartenGraduated 2020
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